Invisible Sisters

One daughter’s moving account of illness, death, and the dissolution of her family.

The Story

When Jessica Handler was eight years old, her younger sister Susie was diagnosed with leukemia. To any family, the diagnosis would have been upending, but to the Handlers, whose youngest daughter Sarah had been born with a rare congenital blood disorder, it was an unimaginable verdict. By the time Jessica Handler turned nine, she had begun to introduce herself as the “well sibling;” and her family had begun to come apart.

Invisible Sisters is Handler's powerfully told story of coming of age—as the daughter of progressive Jewish parents who move south to participate in the social-justice movement of the 1960s; as a healthy sister living in the shadow of her siblings' illness; and as a young woman struggling to step out of the shadow of her sisters' deaths, to find and redefine herself anew. With keen-eyed sensitivity, Handler's brave account explores family love and loss, and what it takes not just to survive, but to keep living.

"Heartbreaking and hopeful."

"Invisible Sisters is both heartbreaking and hopeful. Even as Jessica Handler tells us of her family’s losses, she reminds us to celebrate life. Handler shows us how to move forward without being afraid to look back. This book is a gift."

Ann Hood, Author of Comfort: A Journey Through Grief and The Knitting Circle: A Novel

"Chronicles the ambush of a happy family."

"Invisible Sisters chronicles the ambush of a happy family and its devastation in the face of every hope and effort. What Jessica Handler has rescued from grief, bravely and without self-pity, is the story of her own hard-won survival. The book in which she discovers a self separate from the anguished role she seemed destined to play haunted me from its very first page and has not let me go."

Rosellen Brown, Author of Tender Mercies and Before and After

"Lyrical elegance and cool remove."

"Handler tells this story with the lyrical elegance and cool remove of Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking—the highest praise possible for any memoir of loss."

Atlanta Magazine

"Clear-eyed, candid portrayal of emotional toll."

"[T]his clear-eyed, candid work portrays the immense emotional toll that two daughters’ illnesses take on a family living in Atlanta."

Publishers Weekly

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